Start Next Now How to get the life youve always wanted by Bob Pritchett INTRODUCTION: PERMISSION TO TRY ANYTHING My parents were not particularly ambitious for me They didnt push me to excel in school My dad didnt pressure me to win the game and my mom wasnt overly concerned with my report card My parents cared a lot about my character but not as much it seemed about preparing me for a specific career or status or ambition They didnt push me to do anything in particular What my parents did give me was encouragement to find and explore my own passions Every project idea and fleeting career ambition was met with their encouragement support and a suggestion of what I could do right now to explore that passion When I wanted to be an FBI agent my parents introduced me to a police detective who gave me a stack of professional law enforcement magazines When I expressed an interest in bees they put a beehive in the backyard and encouraged me to start a honey business My interest in business got me sent around the neighborhood with a cart selling vegetables from the garden my curiosity about journalism was met with the support to launch a school newspaper I have read many stories about parents driving children toward excellence in one pursuit or another but none of parents giving such benign and nonspecific support as I received Athlete merchant cop or president of the United States my parents led me to believe that every option was open to me and they offered suggestions on how to start exploring it right now My interest in computers led to a high school business selling software for computer programmers In writing and online no one knew I was just a kid and during the day my mother took phone messages so I could return calls after school That experience helped me land an internship at Microsoft when I was eighteen A year later I was working full time at Microsoft when I started a hobby project with a friend that grew into yet another business At twenty I left to pursue that business full time and I am still leading it more than twenty years later I love being an entrepreneur its fun to set a vision and lead a team and even make some money But the joy I find in my daily work doesnt come from money or position but rather from doing purposeful work I love with people I love And I am wise enough to know that I am not a self-made man I am the beneficiary of many advantages not the least of which is permission Today I employ hundreds of people In interviews and coffee conversations I hear over and over again how people were held back by parents who discouraged them by teachers and coaches and bosses and counselors who told them they werent qualified and by so-called friends who laughed at their dreams If you are among those who did not find encouragement to pursue your passion then I am here to pass along the wisdom of my gently supportive parents: You have permission to try anything and my belief that you can accomplish whatever youd like It might be hard it might take time and maybe you wont even want to But we can start finding out right now You have permission to do something incredible You can have the life youve always wanted You can start your next now