We have to build your system in our imagination to try and divine what’s wrong and in the absence of good, clean data, we have to fall back on the system that Most People Have, and Most People have a Windows laptop.
switch from my headset to speakers then back
That would be rational if the machine was having troubles maintaining reliable contact with the headset. This could be really interesting to fix because not only do you have a wireless “headphone,” you also have a “headset” so you are going through multiple drivers and processing just to hear what you’re doing.
Do you have a plain, wired headphone in the closet somewhere? Even earbuds with an adapter. I’d be powerfully tempted to plug into the Lexicon and make that the microphone and headphone. I bet the playback problems vanish if you do that.
the stupid thing switches over to not recognizing my mic
That’s much more serious. You could have two different problems.
switch from my headset to speakers then back
OK, so that means you have a conventional soundcard in the machine?
As a grand generality, I’m peeling off layers of complexity to try and identify the parts that don’t work right. If you have multiple problems you could be peeling back to the soundcard and not using the USB connection and the Lexicon—if only to get enough information so you can figure out what’s wrong.
If you do have a “real” soundcard, it should be possible to adapt your mixer analog output (I use my Tape-Out) to the blue Stereo Line-In of the soundcard, eliminating the entire Lexicon/USB system.
After you get a stable system (even if it’s not optimal for a performance), put the more complex system back together piece at a time carefully inspecting it as you go.
The only other note is that Audacity doesn’t actually connect to any hardware. It connects to Windows and Windows supplies the connections. So next time it fails, go into Windows setups and see if Windows can still find all the pieces you think should be there, keeping in mind RF systems can have “magic” failures: radio interference, cancellation, “flickering”, etc.
Did you, by any chance, recently buy another Convenient Wireless Device?
Koz